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Regrets Associated With Marrying Early
You will witness that so many people tend to marry much later than the earlier generations in as much as they have attained the age of consent. It is not uncommon to witness many men marrying at the age of 29 while the average age of women to marry is 27. This is a difference of about 6 years in comparison to the average age in 1968. You will however realize that there are those that get into marriage at a much earlier age. There are too many factors that go into this decision. However, you will note that there are certain regrets that those that marry early suffer including the following.
You will note that so many people say that it was all physical. You will learn that honeymoon will often work well for couples that tend to feature more dopamine as well as hormones. Even though you will witness a number of couples making it through honeymoon, we have those that are likely to crash especially if they barely wait. So many spouses that marry shortly after meeting are more likely to encounter problems during this honeymoon. This is because many couples realize that their relationship is quite physical. There are so many people that do not understand their partners as much as they should. It is advisable that a partner features shared ideologies, beliefs, views and even life goals. These aspects take long before they can be unraveled. It can be quite disappointing in the long run for one to marry without understanding such shared aspects.
It is not uncommon to find couples complaining of change. Such partners are often pushed apart due to goal differences as well as unlike personalities. It is easy to notice how many people feel that the age of consent is the only thing that needs to worry them. This process will often call for emotional readiness as well. It goes without saying that any decision made after marriage will have an effect on both partners. This means that you will lose yourself as an individual entity. You will also note that loss of single friends will be imminent. This is due to the fact that people will time and again feel like they are in different paths of life.
You will also witness that most people regret what could have been. It is necessary to mention that some will feel like their youth would have taken a different path altogether. We have a number of people that will regret marrying early given that they fear they might have missed out on so much in life.
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